My thoughts on the red pill community - Sous-titres bilingues
The more powerful you become as a man the more free and sexually attractive you are that's the bottom line That's the true status.
That's the true flex power is not power over other people.
It is personal power How able are you to go try new things to do new things?
How much social capital do you have right?
how rooted in your purpose, how disciplined are you, how disciplined is your character.
Like are the things that really cultivate and protect power and personal power.
And without personal power, everything is pure stagnation.
You're just masturbating the porn hub, hitting your vape.
playing video games with the old homies and you can't do anything you just work a job you don't really like that is low power.
So a lot of young men today are sexually frustrated they have trouble getting girls they don't like the quality of girls they're getting into relationships
with, and this has created a huge rift in young man and really fueled a lot of the red pill community in the manosphere.
I have some issues with the red pill community.
I really admire and appreciate the encouragement to start working out,
to stopping the porn addictions, to a business, all personal development stuff I think is great.
but the shadow side to personal development and this whole red pill community is this over emphasis on status.
Oh, go to the gym and make more money so you have higher status so you can get women.
This is not only faulty and But it's also a very transactional and immature approach to masculinity, and I wanna talk about both these things.
If you follow enough of the red pill,
you know,
life people and pick up artists out there,
you're gonna start to think that women only care about status,
that if you don't drive a nice car and you don't have money and you don't have the looks that you're screwed.
And, this may only be right if you're at a club, honestly.
In my experience, I know beautiful, successful men who can't even get women.
I know also know men who have almost no money who pull women like Status is this overly celebrated thing,
and think it creates a lot of frustration in young men who don't feel high status,
and it creates this limiting belief, like, oh I don't have the things, so she won't like me.
In fact, women care a lot less for status than they do for how deep, true, and safe you are as a human being.
being.
Let's get into a lot of this.
This is the interesting thing,
and this is kind of the core piece of this video, is I think that women sense open-hearted, mature masculinity.
In fact, it is what they are wired to look for biologically and evolutionary.
Is can I trust this man?
Is he strong inside of himself?
Does he lead himself?
Is he enjoying life?
Is his heart...
Okay.
And why don't we get those things correct?
When standing in our purpose, in our Dharma, we are connected to people, we are connected to our lives.
We emit a vibration, we emit an energy that women sense and are attracted to.
I'm going to give you two scenarios for my life, not to brag, but to illustrate this idea.
Okay, a few years ago, I went through a hard breakup, you know, and I had a lot of frustration
towards her and towards women in general.
I was alone for months, for months, traveling my van, and I just couldn't meet any of that.
And I was struggling with my purpose, what I wanted to do, I didn't feel very connected to other people.
And saw my ex, you posting on her stories with other guys, and knew she was, you know, on a tear, really.
And created a lot of frustration and jadedness inside of me towards women, understandably.
I other men can relate to this.
And, long story short, all of a sudden I started thinking like I didn't have enough status, so I couldn't get women.
Or I needed to be a certain way, or needed to do something different, or there wasn't the right women out there.
There there's good women didn't exist.
Fast forward to,
you know,
the last few months of my life,
and it feels like I am connected to my life,
I am connected to my community, I just finished writing a book, I'm celebrating, you know.
And the amount of interest I garner from the feminine is like tenfold what it's ever been in my entire life.
And it's amazing.
And it's also showing me like, whoa.
Women are actually attracted to what you're putting out there,
to what you're embodying,
to the quality of your masculinity,
the quality of your presence, far more than what you have or what you look like or what you say, right?
They sense something deeper.
Now this is a very different message than what a lot of the pick up artists and people
in the red pill community are speaking to.
Many of these pick up artists type people are saying,
hey, get more status, dress this way, look this way, use these techniques, and then you'll get women.
But if those are the things that you're that you're trying to gain,
A, you're looking for the wrong type of woman, and B, you're looking in the wrong places.
And if you feel out-competed,
you feel sexually frustrated,
you feel all these things, it's not time to like try to go learn more techniques to pick up women at the club.
It's a terrible idea.
It's time to go inward.
It's time to develop your sense of purpose, your sense of direction, your sense of self-leadership and life.
It's time to get healthier, to live more vibrantly, to be connected to brothers, to find a sense of purpose, to refine yourself, right?
You know,
intermingling with your community,
building connections,
real connections with the community,
and that is where you're going to meet people,
and that is where you're going to attract good women who actually come into your life and add so much value.
There's different stages to a man's life, and I think the cocooning stage always precedes the blooming stage.
and i feel like i'm coming into the blooming stage where i have a lot more power i have a lot
more resources i have a lot more social capital and interest from the feminine than ever before but
that wasn't always the case and here's the thing if you're not in the blooming stage trying to be in it
And trying to escape where you're at is only going to create anxiety,
frustration, and a lack of steadiness and conviction inside of you that everyone will send.
When I talk about the cocooning stage, I'm not talking about just shutting your door and just like doing inner work.
No, it's about trying new things, going to new places, building yourself, building your business, growing the challenges of the world, the challenges before you.
Maybe it's leaving home, maybe it's building a business, maybe it's finishing your studies.
Like it is, it's growing through that and growing courageously.
Like approaching new people, going, trying new things, going out, you know growing in every way you can.
Here's the thing is this video has a very subtle undertone of power.
The more powerful you become as a man, the more free and sexually attractive you are.
That's the bottom line, that's the true status, that's the true flex.
Power not power over other people, it is personal power.
How able are you to go try new things, to do new things?
How social capital do you have, right?
How rooted in your purpose, how disciplined are you, how disciplined is your character?
Like those are the things that really cultivate and protect power and personal power.
how everything pure stagnation.
You're just masturbating the porn hub, hitting your vape.
playing video games with the old homies,
and you can't do anything and you just work a job you don't really like, like that is low power.
A high power individual,
right, is free, he is disciplined, he is dedicated, he is convicted, and he is confident because he has lived with courage his whole life.
That is where power comes from,
the courage to face fears,
to face resistance, to do new things, to grow, to ever expand the boundaries of your kingdom and cultivate the resources inside of it.
That is what power is, and that is something that is a missing message in the component of masculinity.
And here's another thing I disagree with a lot in the red pill community,
is this objectification of women as these manipulative, self-centered, attention-seeking hoes.
I think it's a terrible lens to see women through.
And you see women through that lens and you're angry at the dating market and you're angry at these things,
not only are you going to push women away, but you're also not going to develop mature masculinity.
I think women come into our lives to really develop and refine men.
to cultivate you,
to open your heart, to show you your blind spots, to help you perceive an entire new world that is feminine in nature.
The brings so much beauty to life and she needs to feel safe and cherished and honored.
And I think that process of empathizing
working with a woman and learning to lead a woman lovingly and refining your own sense of
masculinity through the best reflection you'll ever get is one of the greatest gifts in life and it's not to be overlooked.
You women, it's not just for sex and like some kind of companionship and teammate.
No.
like getting into a relationship is deep work, especially at the beginning.
Your couple relationships are there to really refine you and teach you and teach you about yourself and teach you about the other.
And I think valuing that is something completely again completely missing in the red pill community
So I want to go a little bit deeper here on
immature masculinity versus mature masculinity and first things first my friends is masculinity grows through change This is why I was saying,
the more courageous you can be in life,
the more challenges you can face in your work,
in your personal life, the more addictions you can face, the more problems you can solve, right?
When you grow through challenges, when you grow through fears, right, you grow deeper.
You start to become more capable.
You start to become more steady and consistent because you've worked through your indulgences.
You've worked through your challenges.
You're coming more into your Dharma, your truth, your center.
This is what life tests.
You got to understand is life is and life is always testing the masculine.
Just like women and the feminine are always probing and testing the masculine, can I trust you?
Are you steady?
Are you capable?
Are you consistent?
Are you open-hearted?
Are you full of joy or full of worry and despair and all these different things?
They're testing to see are you centered in your core?
Okay.
There are two main forms of immature masculinity that I see, and most of us are or have worked through some combination of the two.
On the one hand, there's the fragile and tight.
you know fragile masculinity.
They feel like they need to control and hold up the world.
They're always seeking to prove themselves,
they're always looking for the approval for others,
they react harshly, you that they have this feeling of tightness, of excitement, of pressure, of anxiety, of of quickness in them.
They're not slow and present and more surrendered because they just haven't gone far enough yet.
The other type of immature masculinity is the uncultivated and impotent type.
These are very wishy-washy,
they're unsure of themselves, they're insecure, they really know who they are, and they just kind of drift and coast through life.
Most most boys, are some combination of the two.
The fragile is always tight because he is scared and he is insecure.
He has not grown through the immense challenges and initiations of masculinity because he has not gotten into that cocoon phase of facing life,
you know, of being courageous.
And without that, he doesn't feel deeply trusting of himself, deeply trusting of life.
He has not surrendered into open and initiated masculinity.
And you can feel this.
When you talk to these fragile type men, you don't sense a glowing vitality about them.
You don't sense an open heart, a depth of emotion, a depth of feeling, a depth of willpower that perhaps a more initiated man expresses.
I guess what I'm saying here is there's these two types of masculinity,
and the more you can come into that mature,
rooted, grounded, connected, open-hearted, masculine at your center by growing through challenges courageously, the more the feminine will be attracted
to you, the more the feminine nature of life will reward you.
Open, strong masculinity must be earned, but through earning it, you earn the rewards of life.
Hey, I'm Christian.
Thanks for watching Wisdom Warriors.
We just dove into a lot there on transactional value, status, power, women, mature masculinity.
Let me know where you want to go deeper.
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